
Travel light. Plant heavy.
Winter contracts on purpose. Less sun, fewer rooms, quieter phones. Use it. Who you keep now will determine what blooms when the light returns.
Allies add energy, tell the hard truth, and move in silence.
Liabilities stall, confuse, and drag decisions.
Parasites harvest your time, attention, or status. Label them fast. Act faster.
Keep: consistency, reciprocity, clean boundaries, real results.
Cut: subtle contempt, delay tactics, gossip, debt without return.
If you need a paragraph to justify someone, you already have the answer.
Say it once: “That won’t work for me.” Hold the line without theater. Replace debates with distance. Your standards aren’t a group vote.
One mentor (upfield truth), one peer (iron sharpens), one protégé (teach to remember). Shared scoreboard > shared opinions. Meet weekly; measure outcomes, not vibes.
Missed word. Missed window. Missed respect. If you feel smaller after every interaction, the price is your spring.
Travel light. Plant heavy.
Winter chooses your spring.
What Your Suffering Was Always Trying to Teach You
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