They told you monogamy was safe.
They told you freedom was chaos.
But neither are true—unless you’re living unconsciously.
Most people aren’t choosing their relationship style.
They’re reacting to fear, tradition, ego, or trauma.
They don’t want a partner.
They want a guarantee.
Someone to stay, not someone to see.
So they sign the contract. Lock it down.
And call that love.
But love without sovereignty is prison with pretty curtains.
This isn’t monogamy vs. polyamory.
It’s control vs. connection.
Power games vs. power sharing.
Obligation vs. overflow.
You can be in a monogamous relationship and still feel wild.
Open. Expansive.
Because openness is an energy, not a body count.
And you can be in an “open relationship” that’s just a mask for avoidance.
No depth.
No truth.
No center.
The truth?
Monogamy isn’t the problem.
Openness isn’t the cure.
The core question is this:
Are you choosing it… or performing it?
Most people aren’t loyal.
They’re afraid.
Afraid to lose.
Afraid to feel.
Afraid to trust the pull without needing a leash.
So they chain each other up.
Pretend that cage equals commitment.
But real connection doesn’t grow in captivity.
It sharpens in freedom.
When someone has the power to leave—and chooses to stay—
That’s not weakness.
That’s love at its highest voltage.
If you’re honest, you don’t want to be free to be with everyone.
You want to be free to be fully seen.
You want a partner who gets it.
Who understands the difference between sacred monogamy and insecure possession.
You want an openness of mind, not just body.
You want erotic loyalty that isn’t manufactured—it’s magnetic.
Chosen daily.
Burning.
Still wild behind the eyes.
Even in the most “equal” partnerships—
There’s always an undercurrent of power.
Who’s leading?
Who’s surrendering?
Who’s afraid to lose?
Some relationships are just emotional chess matches.
Others are spiritual collaborations.
You don’t want to dominate or be dominated.
You want polarity.
You want purpose.
You want fire without a leash.
If you’ve ever felt torn between devotion and desire, it’s because you’re built for something deeper.
Not just love. Not just freedom.
But the kind of connection that doesn’t fit into any box—because it was made to build kingdoms, not cages.
Monogamy isn’t weak.
Open isn’t broken.
Power isn’t abuse.
And love isn’t a cage.
It’s the fire you both agree to burn in—without extinguishing each other.
When you stop trying to own each other,
You finally make room to be chosen.
And the truth is:
Some people want a partner.
I want a sovereign witness.
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