You are who you tolerate.
And most people tolerate weakness, gossip, and mediocrity.
They don’t even realize it.
Because it shows up soft. Friendly. Familiar.
But it drains you just the same.
Every conversation casts a spell.
Every presence in your life either fortifies your fire—or feeds off it.
So ask yourself:
What kind of people have you let shape your flow state?
You think you’re just hanging out.
But energy transfers quietly.
That one friend who complains about everything?
That lover who jokes about your dreams like they’re wild fantasies?
That co-worker who always almost supports you—
But never really does?
They don’t need to sabotage you on purpose.
They just have to be close enough for their fear to infect your focus.
Mindset isn’t personal. It’s viral.
And if you’re not strong enough to filter it—
You’ll start walking their path instead of your own.
Most of the time, it’s not even what they say.
It’s how they move.
How they react.
To pressure.
To opportunity.
To truth.
Watch it:
If you’re around people like that long enough…
You’ll start to dim your light just to make them comfortable.
Not because you want to—
But because the human brain learns by mimicry.
And the soul gets tired of defending itself.
Some bonds were beautiful once.
But now they’re bricks.
You’re carrying people who haven’t moved in years.
And for what?
Because you “owe” them?
Because they “need” you?
You’re not a savior.
You’re a sovereign force.
And sometimes, the most powerful act of love is walking away
So both of you can rise.
There are people who can hold your fire without flinching.
They exist.
They won’t laugh when you say your dreams out loud.
They won’t shrink when you win.
They won’t judge your scars or slow your pace.
They’ll say:
“Go harder. I’ve got you.”
And they’ll mean it.
Find those people.
Because they’re rare.
And when you have them—
You don’t just grow. You ascend.
Not of who you are…
But of what you allow.
So check it:
Are you surrounded by accelerants or anchors?
Are you being sharpened—or slowly swallowed?
The company you keep is more than a vibe.
It’s a signal to the universe of what you believe you’re worth.
Not all endings are betrayals.
Some are births.
Of a new season.
A new circle.
A new standard.
You’re not just keeping company.
You’re keeping momentum. Or you’re losing it.
The spell is yours to cast now.
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